CISPA is Back!!

Pissed off

I don't know why but I'm totally pissed off tonight...

It's just that someone is really getting on my nerves tonight...

*Sorry I'll use some of inappropriate words after this...

You mother fucker selfish bitch...
You kept bragging on how good you are and everything you have but when a person asked for
your help you kept giving some excuses..
Go to hell with it BITCH!!!

Seriously, just remember this, what goes around comes around....

Boyce Avenue

Yesterday, my friend gave me a CD that contains famous song of 2012..

But actually, the songs is not sang by the real singers..

It was covered..by a group called Boyce Avenue..

When I hear them, I was like..

Mann, they really got the talents in them..

I was amazed..

Less talk here..I just wanna show you guys their video and how amazing they are..

Enjoy....

Nothing Much...

Well, there's nothing much to say..

During the whole week of holiday I didn't have the chance to post anything because I'm to busy with my family..

And honestly,

We didn't even go anywhere for vacation..

Except for last Saturday..

We went to Bukit Jalil..

My lil brother had a sports event which is called KL Open...

Well, that was not a vacation..

That thing makes me feel bored to death..

I can't even do my assignments because my laptop's battery won't even last for an hour..

So, I just stay there and watch like an idiot bored person...

Judging Others

Salam,

Their are two things which go hand in hand, one is to internalize criticism and the other is judging yourself before judging others. Let’s accept it, No one is perfect, we aren’t angels.

We gotta constantly discipline our soul and most importantly be aware of our actions, because the Angels are writing down, and it don’t stop till your soul leaves your body. Look at yourself in the mirror, ask yourself What kind of a person am I? Evaluate your performance as a believer.

The question for today is do we put ourselves above other people when we approach them. You already know the devil is working hard to kick that pride in us, but that’s a disease of the heart and we gotta work on that Inshallah.

The Prophet saw said: “No one with the slightest particle of arrogance in his heart will enter paradise.”

A man remarked, “But a man likes his clothes to be nice and his sandals good.” The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, “Verily, Allah is beautiful and loves beauty. Arrogance is refusing to acknowledge what is right and considering others beneath one.” (Mishkat al-Masabih)

What a beautiful Hadith, to put things into perspective, basically by judging others you energize that pride and start thinking your all pious. Chill Yo that’s Haraam Yo. See the interesting thing about living life as a Muslim is that to reaffirm your faith you gotta ask yourself, Am I living by the Sunnah? Do I follow the commands of Allah swt? If not then how can you expect a return in the hereafter. It’s all relative and we gotta stick to the principles. Remember Heaven or Hell can mean a blink of an eye.

Sayyiduna Ali (Allah be pleased with him) said: ” The world and the hereafter are like the east and west, and the traveler is between them. To the extent that he draws close to one, he distances himself from the other” (Ibid., 647.) So basically make up your mind. Either you go wild right now and suffer in the hereafter or you chill out, attain taqwa and chill in paradise.
Nowadays we have this wildfire spreading in peoples minds that they are quick to judge other people. Not only that, but they also like to spread rumors and if one wants to change they continue to backbite or bring up incidents from the past. As a result this destroys motivation for the individual who wants to change.

Of course it shouldn’t, we should all recognize that we are accountable to Allah (swt) alone and from him we come and to him we shall return. If a believer is making an effort to strive for good and you keep knocking him off the straight path. Then just accept that your the devils advocate.
The reason why I bought this up is because I feel that we might at times be driven with the mentality to point out other’s mistakes and elevate ourselves above others. The bottom line is we don’t know who Allah (swt) loves more. So stamp this Hadith in your heart.

Our beloved Prophet Muhammad (Peace and salutations be upon him) said, “ Should you become eager to mention another’s faults, recall your own. “ (Ar-Rafi)

At the end of it all, we gotta understand when someone tells us something for our own benefit, its to help us. It’s that simple, don’t assume that he or she is trying to put you down, If you do that I promise you will never change. This is something we are all working on to some degree everyday, the better we get the more impact we will see in our life.

May Allah (swt) help us take constructive criticism and give us understanding of the deen and dunya! Ameen…don’t get it twisted

LIsten, LIsten, Listen

(A poem)

by Allan CF Goh

When we train an animal,
We want it to just listen,
Not to dare to stop and think,
But to ‘behave’ when chastened.
We want a real, docile being,
To a given task, hasten,
Without any talking back;
Mindless, forever craven.

This is how ‘humans’ behave,
When blinded and conditioned,
To just listen, and listen…..
Without using their notion.
They know not what things are right,
They live only permissions.
If that’s allowed to happen,
We end up an idiot nation.

Reflection On Marriage

"If we don’t empower people with the understanding and proper tools for marriage, how can we expect them to have successful marriages if and when they do finally marry? If we don’t have successful marriages, we cannot have wholesome communities. If we don’t have wholesome communities, then we cannot truly be an Ummah."

- Amjad Tarsin